Sexual Intimacy and Family Life

This week in the class, one of the question was "How well do we know that person(Partner)well?"

     When I heard that question, I was thinking about a story of one couple. They have been dating for 3 years and finally got married. When they were dating, they thought they knew everything about each other, however, things were very different after they got married. It was only a month have passed and the husband became different person, he got abusive for no reason. The girl haven't experienced anything abusive in past 3years of dating.

   In order to know that person, this few things are neccessary to have, Talk,Time, and Togatherness.
I heard that 3month is good amount of time to know the person.

   In class we also talked about "relationship attachment model" it has few things that we can balance,
KNOW > Trust > Rely > Commit > Touch. In these steps, starts with one thing and fall to the next will have more chance to have good and better relationship between two couples.