Family relation class

 I really recommand everyone to take this class, it really gives you a opportunities to think and learn many things about the family. It gaves me a lot of perspectives about Husband and Wife and children and the parents. It helps you to relate with your own situation and circumstances.

 In the beginning I didn't understand why brother Williams keep mentioning that Family is the most hard and complicated unit. Because I thought very simply that just meet a good guy and marry them and teach the children well. But in Family relation class it doesn't only talk about what does mom, dad, or the chilren do in the family. It also talk about different perspectives and family situation, such as remarried couple, single mom, sigle dad, and so on.

 I am so glad that I took this class because I learned so many things that I was misunderstood or many facts that I didn't reconize before. Now I know better about Family in many other circumstances and what I should prevent and prepare for those situations. At the end I have more confidence for my future family and I can't to wait till I have my own family.

Divorce & Remarriage

  I learned a new perspectives of Divorcity and Remarriage today in the class.

  Before I get to hear and learn about this material, I thought it wouldn't be too hard if they understand each other and being kind. But family relation in the remarriage are dealing with many complications. The emotional pressure on new father or mother(step father or mother) between the children (especially when they are older age).

   Some of the concerns from each family memeber are..
 A step father or mother could think : ' What if they compare me with their old father/mother? '
 Children : ' I don't know them that well, how am I suppose accept him/her'
 biological father/mother: ' Iet's protect my children just incase I fail at this marriage again. '

These are the some of the thoughts that they could think in remarriage family.


   Also what grabbed my attention was that person who was divorced will have "Divorced" in their record forever. And people would usually think not a good idea to remarry with someone who was divorced or have children already.  However, at the end we should not judge by what they have done, because we never know why and how they were ended up being in that situation. We need to first be in their situation and not be judgemental. Remarriage can be happened when there's death of their spouse  or other situation. Also we have to rememer, we never know what will happen to us, so when we are ended up being in the same situation we don't want people to judge us by where we are. And we can not judge them because it is their choice, what they want to do for their life and what makes them happy.


 This "Divorce and Remarriage" topic opened up for me to prepare for me to have future family. I am so glad to learn about this material today in the class. It really made me to have another perspectives of Divorce and Remarriage.